Answer found by chance

Q: "Do we become happy only when we meet the one we love?"

"Nope. that's oversimplification of happiness
and i think that's a fairly negligent proposition.
I think happiness is a psychological construct that is misunderstood most,
besides depression. 
Here, you're limiting happiness with romantic attachment
and the utopian view of soulmate.
I detest such an ignorant view.
Why are we limiting ourselves?
Creating illusory boundaries that weren't there on the first place?
I don't know.
People are becoming more and more ignorant these days,
they refuse to invest their times thinking deeply
and I think that one of the precursor of humanity's regressions.
I think..."

          From Alita Dyah, from a far, by chance.

Q: "How to convince people that smoking is not cool anymore?"

"Smoking is never cool.
People don't smoke because it's cool.
People smoke because it's something to fill the aching void inside their chests.
Because even illusions of an existence is better than a gaping, empty hole.
It gives them a reason to talk,
a motivation to strive, a question to answer.

People who smoke the most are aware of the bad effects of their habits.
If you want to stop them, don't cut their tobacco,
but give them an answer to the questions inside them.
If you can't even fathom what that is,
then you're not in any position to tell them to do anything."

          From Reba Aryadi, best answer to convice all the smokers.